Although it is not the same for everyone, the wish of many is that the relationship will get married after a while. According to experts, in order to make the right decisions for marriage, it should be done after a period of love in the range of 12-18 months. There are some situations where you want to spend the rest of your life together and before you take a big decision, there are some situations that you should review in order to avoid major crises in your future life.
What do I want about my career?
It is very important that the person you want to be with you for the rest of your life supports you. If you have big dreams about career, being with someone who is not in the same direction as you will bring various problems in the future.
talk about children
Before getting married, couples should get to know each other deeply and exchange ideas about wanting children and where to live; they should determine the involvement of families in the relationship and discuss financial issues.
harmony with family
Although the saying ‘you marry your family when you get married’ is a bit of an exaggeration, our social and cultural roots are very important. You have been brought up in the cultures of your own family. Even if you agree with the person you are with according to the characteristics that make you you, it is a very important detail for the families to be harmonious and understandable during the time of getting to know each other and after the marriage.
Can we survive the crisis?
One of the most important questions that you should pay attention to and ask yourself before you say yes to the man with whom you will lay your head on the same pillow for a lifetime is ‘How many times did we fight, can we get through the crisis?’ should be. No matter how big or small, the debates that we call salt and pepper will be how you get through these crises.