Some people can tolerate loneliness and even enjoy it. They prefer the peace of loneliness to an unhappy union with someone. However, people who cannot bear the burden of loneliness and tend to depression in the face of this situation are not few. Why am I alone? Why can’t I have a decent relationship? Am I not worthy of a relationship? Don’t I deserve a good relationship or a lover? Why don’t I have a girlfriend? Questions like these are constantly on their minds, and this adds unhappiness to their unhappiness. So what is the reason or reasons for this loneliness?
NOT TAKING A STEP EVEN FOR SIMPLE FLIRT
This situation may have reasons such as emotional perfectionism, excessive self-confidence, hopelessness, and depression. For at least one of these reasons, people may be afraid of expressing their feelings to people they like or consider a candidate for a serious relationship and may delay their feelings.
Reasons such as thinking that he is not enough for the person he likes, finding it unnecessary to give someone a chance and getting to know him after he has not fallen madly in love, and not being able to fit himself next to the person he likes are also serious reasons for starting a relationship.
THINKING THAT YOU CAN COMMIT YOUR SELF BY TAKING TIME TO OTHERS
If I don’t have a relationship, I will be much more relaxed and free. The thought that there will not be someone who interferes with me and constantly tells me what to do, that I will devote all my time to myself and that I will not waste my time in a union that consumes me may be a reason for ending a possible relationship with the opposite sex before it starts.